July, 2009

By Rev. Linda

Did you know that more advances and discoveries having to do with how the mind works were made in the 1990’s than ever before? I mention that because that is knowledge that you can use when it comes to writing your wedding vows and using them to create a mental foundation for your marriage.

What I want you to do is to take the discoveries about how the mind works and integrate them into the writing your wedding vows. Create wedding vows with intention and mindfulness. What you are doing is giving your subconscious, or emotional mind, a very clear purposeful direction.

Because, you see, one of those discoveries I was talking about was that your subconscious mind (sort of like an operating system for a computer which can’t do anything it hasn’t been previously programmed to do unless its program is rewritten) doesn’t know the difference between what is real and what is imagined.

That one discovery has vast and very important implications for you. Because you can make your mind believe whatever you want. You can imprint a design and if you do it with passion and purpose, continue to reinforce and support that imprint, it will eventually become the operating system and you will automatically think, act, react, and live your life and the life of your marriage from those standards.

You will be creating values with enormous potential by taking some time to write your wedding vows. To talk about them together.

Do not go off into separate rooms at separate times to write vows that you can surprise your spouse with at the time of the wedding. It’s important that you sit down and talk together and paint your wedding vows with the colors of your imagination verbalized.

I want you to have the most amazing beautiful life possible. All I’m asking is that you take a little time to get clear about what it is you want, talk about it, write it out, pledge it and then keep on reviewing it over and over and over and over.

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Love, light and laughter,

Rev. Linda, The Wedding Vow Coach
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